Here is an oft-requested link from the kenpierpont site with twenty questions to open the heart of your child. Some use these questions on a multiple-day retreat, some in an hour-long meeting. One dad I know… who is a great dad… keeps them in his wallet and uses one question every time he drives one of his children to a practice or an event. Smart guy. If you use these questions, remember that when you understand your child’s heart the real work is planning responses to their heart needs… not just verbal responses, but projects together that help them and show your devotion to them.