If a man is a great lover it is not because he can attract the attention of many women, or because he has had sexual or romantic experience with many women.
A man who is a great lover is a man who devotes his whole life to loving one woman well.
He listens to her and seeks to understand her.
He tries to meet her needs and win her heart. He protects her physically and spiritually.
He seeks her good. He does not demand to be the center of her world, but he puts her at the heart of his life.
He lives sacrificially to raise the children God gives them together.
By the power of God working within him, he lives his life in such a way that she will walk past his casket one day and her heart will say; “He loved me well, and I was happy.”
That man is a great lover. I want to be a great lover. God help me.
