There is a kind of social inattention that I have always found humorous. I notice it most on the few occasions when I golf with friends. Golf is not something I take very seriously. If you ever saw me golf you would know why. The more pressure on me to make a good shot, the more people watching, the more performance anxiety I have and the worse I do. So when everyone stops talking and stands watching and a group has played up behind us and they are silently watching the chances of me getting off a decent drive are not good.
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Bad Day
I spend a lot of time waiting for my family to get in the car so we can go places. One of the things that keeps me from getting hostile about that is that I get to scare them by beeping the horn when they walk by the front of the van. It’s just one of those little ways I save money on therapy.
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No Hurry
In the seventies Jim Croche recorded a haunting song called “Time in A Bottle.” You probably remember it. The song laments the swift passing of time and it’s made all the more poignant when you realize the singer himself was killed in a plane crash when he was a young man.
A dear fried of mine was named alumnus of the year at Cornerstone University in Grand Rapids in October. On the way back to his home in Chicago, he was killed in an automobile accident. Reminders of the swift passing of time and the brevity of life are everywhere.
C. S. Lewis wrote a creative little book called The Screwtape Letters, a collection of correspondence between a senior demon named Screwtape and his nephew Wormwood. The older demon is coaching the younger one in the art of disturbing and damning souls. One letter contains a story that illustrates how demons use the swift passing of time to their advantage.
Here is the way I remember the story. The demons in hell were summoned to a conference with the great Evil One himself. The purpose of the meeting was to exchange ideas about tactics that had proven effective in damning and discouraging souls.
One young demon rose and addressed the meeting. His idea was nearly as old as time itself. “In our region we have found one lie especially effective. At strategic times we simply suggest there is no Heaven,” he said. There was a murmur of approval from the thousands of demons gathered there.
After a brief silence another demon stood to address the group. “Better yet,” he suggested; “We’ve been telling them there’s no Hell. We have even solicited the cooperation of some seminary professors and respected members of the clergy in nearly every denomination!” This time the noise of approval included a few sinister chuckles as the demons imagined the pleasure of tormenting people forever who had been taught by their own pastors to doubt the reality of hell.
The meeting grew quiet and toward the back of the room an unusually wicked demon cleared his throat and spoke with undisputed authority. An evil smile parted his lips and his eyes were red with hatred. He spoke with a smooth, deep voice. “I have a better plan. It’s been very effective for years where I work. We don’t try to convince them there’s no hell and we know that most people won’t believe there is no heaven. We just tell them there’s no hurry. The smell of sulfur filled the air, the cries of tormented souls was mixed with the hiss of the fire and the meeting was dismissed.
Most people have good intentions. They have a long list of good things they intend to get to some day. The frightening thing is that some very, very important things can be moved so far down that list that they will never happen. In some cases eternal destiny is what hangs in the balance. That could be tragic in the extreme. When a little voice tells you there’s no hurry don’t believe it. Life is short, fragile and uncertain and eternity may be just around the next bend in the road.
Bittersweet Farm

Reasons to Get Out of Bed in the Morning
My Dad taught be to rise early. He challenged me at twelve years old to take a morning paper route. The paper was the Dayton Journal-Herald. My first Journal-Herald route was in a the little burg of DeGraff about thirty miles northeast of Dayton. I rose around five every morning and peddled my bike around town to deliver about fifty papers.
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How I Lost 105 Pounds
I have lost over 100 pounds and kept it off. I would like to answer a question I have been asked at least a hundred times: “How did you lose your weight?”
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Are Your Lights On?
It must have been the coldest day of the winter so far. Our neighbor silenced the pleading of his children by climbing to the top of his TV antenna tower to hang a star of colored lights. His daughter came down the hill red-cheeked, all bundled up and begged us to come up and see it.
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