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Growing A Family-Show Them (Sermon 1) Video

February 23, 2018 Filed Under: Current Thoughts

Growing a Family With a Life-Long Love for God
Bethel Church-Jackson, Michigan
February 18, 2018 AM
Pastor Ken Pierpont

Growing A Family–Show Them (Sermon 1) Audio

February 23, 2018 Filed Under: Bethel Church-Jackson, Sermons

Growing a Family With A Life-Long Love for God: Show Them (Sermon One)
Bethel Church-Jackson, Michigan
February 18, 2018 AM
Pastor Ken Pierpont

https://kenpierpont.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Growing-a-Family-Show-Them-1.mp3

Should Preachers Tell Stories?

February 22, 2018 Filed Under: Current Thoughts

Tommy Oaks, Storyteller

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I believe all preachers and teachers of truth should be concrete and clear in their communication. They should answer the questions:

–Can you make that clear?
–What does that look like?
–Why do I care?
–How can I do that?”

I have learned, the way God has gifted me, that telling stories is a powerful way of doing that. Not all good preachers and teachers are good storytellers, but those who don’t choose to use them should be clear and concrete and they should avoid blanket statements condemning or denigrating those who do.

How I came to love stories is one of the best stories I ever tell. I’d be flattered if you would read it. You can read that here. I’d be especially enriched if you would send me a complimentary note…written on a twenty-dollar bill. But the story of how I came to love stories has many chapters. It’s a book I hope to be writing for years to come. If I add a chapter do you promise to read it?

A Spring Night in the Ohio Countryside

Years ago in central Ohio a friend invited me attend special meetings at a country church. We drove through hill farm-country in fragrant spring to the little stone church. I didn’t expect much. I was in for a pleasant surprise. My imagination was ignited that night by a story-teller. His name was Tommy Oaks.

Tommy is from Tennessee. I hear he is the first man ever to graduate with a Master’s Degree in Story-telling from East Tennessee State University. I love the sound of that, though-degree or not- I’m sure Tommy would say you can either tell a story or you can’t. You don’t have to have a master’s degree to be a good story-teller.

He wore a wrinkled shirt with a string tie. He had a salt-and-pepper beard and maybe a little more hair on his face than he had on his head. He moved the pulpit aside and spoke without notes. He had in his memory what he was going to say and he skillfully planted it into our memory. This is what he said;

“When I was a boy I went to church a lot. The preacher always seemed to have three points and a story. I couldn’t tell you what the points were later that afternoon, but I always remembered the story. Tonight I want you to remember what I am going to say so I am going to tell three stories and make one point.”

He told a story. It was a good story and when he finished the story he didn’t make any point but simply said; “Alright, that’s the first story. Now for the second one,” and launched into another. The first story was short and humorous. The second story was simple and short, too. Then Tommy said, “That’s the second story, now here’s the third.”

The third story was slower in telling and serious. Everyone, even little ones, held still and breathed quiet and followed him with their eyes. By the time he reached the end you could start to tell the truth that tied all three of the stories together. It was a profound and weighty truth. It didn’t seem like he had talked for a long time but looking out through the open window you could see that the sun had slipped from sight and the fireflies hovered over the grass. The air was cooler and all of us sitting on the wooden pews enjoyed the silence that a good story produces. We listened like we were smelling fresh bread or slowly savoring a piece of gourmet cheesecake.

Both And: Theological Faithfulness and Storytelling Skill

In the circles in which I run (that’s right I run in circles) we are pretty theologically-conscious. We take a dim view of messages that are not rooted in Scripture top to bottom. We have a carefully-drafted doctrinal position and we like to be able to tell our preachers are sticking pretty close to it. We don’t really think the pulpit is the best place to express our personal opinions or preferences. We like some meat in our preaching. We want to hear someone handle the Word of God with skill and passion.

When the liberal theologians abandoned the authority of Scripture around the turn of the 19th century they substituted moralistic stories about social themes in their place. As a result we often rightly assume that story-teller preachers don’t quite have all their theological marbles. They aren’t always playing with a full theological deck. They are armed but they are no danger to the enemy because their homiletical gun is loaded with blanks.

Tall Tales or True Truth

I met a guy like that a few summers ago. He was a very good story-teller. I was eager to hear him because he was a pastor. He was from a denomination that is not well known for wearing out their Bibles so I was not surprised to find that he was not obsessed with truth. His specialty was tall tales. He sure could spin out a yarn and lay a whopper on you. Sort of a liar for hire, I guess. You could tell from listening that his was a sort of smorgasbord theology, you take what looks good to you and if you see something that you don’t think would taste good to you, you just leave it alone.

After he “told” I talked to him. I congratulated him on his skill and his style. I said; “I understand you are a pastor.”

He must have seen me coming or read my mind. Before I could speak again he offered, “Don’t try to make any sense of my stories. They are strictly for entertainment.”

I smiled politely but the idea went against my grain. I don’t think I have ever told a story without a specific lesson or point. As I see it if you don’t have anything to say that tells me something. You are making the point that you don’t think it is important to make a point. I’m not suggesting you have to assault people with truth. If you tell a good story you shouldn’t have harangue them to get a point across. A good story well-told mostly applies itself. You just lay it on the table and walk away.

My favorite preachers are story-tellers who know the Story of stories and tell it well. The stories of the Bible are often left untold or they are not told well. Secular story-tellers commonly tell tall tales, myths and legends. There is a place for different kinds of stories, but my own niche is true stories. Usually I know they are true because they happened to me, but in my story-telling repertoire I have a few well-chosen favorites that I have picked up from others too.

In my view it is illegitimate to tell stories in the pulpit and inconsistent to try to make a point with them if you don’t believe there is a major “over-arching story” that gives purpose to all the other stories. They say that post-moderns are opposed to an over-arching unifying narrative. That’s too bad because there is a meta-narrative. God is the author of the great story, and it gives meaning to all other stories ever. To reject the big story is to lose your place in the story of God.

Jesus, The Master Storyteller

Jesus fulfilled the prophecy of Psalm 78 by being a storyteller. You can tell a lot about Jesus by the commands he gave, by the questions he asked, the prayers he prayed, and the stories he told. Do you remember when Jesus told three stories to make one point on Luke 15? You have to agree that in telling three stories he made one of the most memorable points any teacher ever made. The first two stories climax into one of the most powerful stories anyone has ever told–the story of the Prodigal Son. They were three stories of lost things found. In every story everyone rejoiced when the lost things were found, including the Father. At the end of the third story there was a twist–an exception. There was one who would not rejoice–the older brother refused to rejoice. People will be telling those Jesus stories long after he returns. They are powerful.

My Ambition

Men are filled with ambition from boyhood. They want to fight fires, fly to the moon, populate planets, win championships, subdue kingdoms, and capture fame, honor and beauty. I just want to be a really good story teller. My ambition is the Kingdom of God and my calling is to stir people up to press into the Kingdom with the Story and with stories.

Ken Pierpont
Bittersweet Farm
Summit Township–Michigan
February 22, 2018

Billy Graham; My “Grandfather”

February 21, 2018 Filed Under: Gospel Conversations

This morning I got word my grandfather in the faith died. He never knew me. The man who led me to the Lord (my Dad) was saved after reading Billy Graham’s book “Peace with God.” So, you see, there is a sense in which my grandfather in the faith died today. He was 99 and he finished faithful to God. God be praised.

Thanks be unto God for his faithfulness and his heritage. Thanks be unto God for his initiative to preach and evangelize and write and make the gospel plain.

Makes me think. What initiative should I take today to help someone understand that good news that Jesus died for their sins and they can have peace with God?

In honor of Billy Graham’s life and legacy I’m going to call a friend today and invite him out for lunch and tell him the good news that changed all our lives when my dad read that book…

Ken Pierpont
Bethel Church
Jackson, Michigan
February 21, 2018

What To Do With Girls

February 21, 2018 Filed Under: Current Thoughts, Faith and Family

Classic Re-post for those of you who have not been reading my blog since 1999.

I read a lot of books. Some of them are devotional, some are theological, some are informational, a few are recreational. One of my favorite recent reads is practical. It was written by a fellow named Dan Bolin. This little treasure is packed full of creative, humorous ways to love your daughter(s). It is called: “How to Be Your Daughter’s Daddy.” and sub-titled: “365 Ways To Show Your Daughter You Care.” Since I have never been a little girl this is a most helpful book.

Here is a sample of some of Dan’s suggestions:

  • Together roast miniature marshmallows with toothpicks over the flame of a candle.
  • Ask her to help you put air in the tires of the car.
  • Compliment her character and skill three times more frequently than you compliment her on her appearance.
  • Be sure you take her to Sunday School and Church.
  • Take time to talk with her in her room before she goes to sleep at night.
  • Make eye contact when you talk to her.
  • Make mini pizzas, using English muffins topped with pizza sauce, cheese and slices of pepperoni.
  • Get her a special night light.
  • Pray with her at bedtime.
  • Sing in the car.
  • Tell her she has a beautiful smile.
  • Ask her questions she cannot answer “yes” and “no.”
  • (Here is one of my favorites), Kiss her mother in her presence.
  • Here are a couple I thought up:
  • Teach her to make coffee for you for when you need to taste-test her cookies.
  • Get her own library card and visit the library together at least once a month.
  • Have her roller-blade while you run. (some of you might want to roller blade while she runs).

It is hard to list these ideas and to think of the precious little girls the Lord has given me without tears of love and gratitude. When you have a little girl, every day is a treasure!

When I look at old pictures or videos of our three little daughters I always get a lump in my throat. They won’t live with me forever. Some day another man will enjoy their cookies and their smile. They will be grown and gone and I won’t be able to go with them up to their room at night and pray with them and tuck them in.

Maybe you wondered how Dan Bolin the author of “How to Be Your Daughter’s Daddy” came up with all those good ideas? Dan had a sense of urgency about spending as much time with his little daughter Catie as possible. His daughter was only four years old when they discovered that she had leukemia. When she was nine little Catie went to heaven. After they discovered her disease Dan had only had five more years to live his daughter.

I hope I can keep Dan’s book and use it with my daughter’s daughters, but we have no promise of tomorrow. Like Gloria Gather wrote: “We have this moment to hold in our hands and to touch as it slips through our fingers like sand. Yesterday’s gone and tomorrow may never come, but we have this moment today.”

Heavenly Father, Thank you for the precious little girls you have entrusted to me for a short time. Forgive me for my selfishness and help me make every moment count. And until Dan and Dan and Catie are together again in a place where death never separates, bless him for reminding us to love our daughters while we still can.

P.S. Its Saturday morning April 10th and if the ultrasound is right another little girl will join us any day.

P.P.S. God in His gracious providence, on Tuesday morning, April 20, 1999 at 5:27, sent into our lives a beautiful, healthy baby daughter. Mom and baby are both well. The Pine Street Parsonage has been filled with joy for the last week as friends and neighbors have come by to hold baby Hope and leave food and gifts. We are overwhelmed by the goodness of God and the kindness of his people and we are “…rejoicing in hope.” (Romans 12:12)

Growing A Family: Show Them (Sermon 1) Video

February 19, 2018 Filed Under: Bethel Church-Jackson

Growing A Family: Show Them
Bethel Church-Jackson, Michigan
February 18, 2018 AM
Pastor Ken Pierpont

The family pictured here is the family of Bob and Linda Dunbar. Bob and Linda raised six children who love the Lord. On February 1, 2015 Bob went to be with the Lord. His heritage lives on in his wife and children and all of us who admired and loved him.

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